Kevin Hogan – Charisma
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Charisma! What Can I Do to Be More Charismatic?
Charisma! Have you ever met someone (or a group of individuals) with whom you instantly clicked? Have you ever thought to yourself, “He’s truly something; I’d like to get to know him.” You can now. You noticed something really charismatic about that individual on some level. Sometimes they detected the same something in you, but nothing transpired over time or perhaps instantly, and you parted ways. Connecting with others is about more than simply physical attraction, while it is crucial and extremely true. When one person sees another and recognizes a kindred spirit, they have made a connection.
It is nearly hard to achieve actual brilliance as a lover, teacher, or salesperson without being perceived as charming by others. The capacity to work well with people is something that corporate leaders pay a lot of money for! Corporations today invest billions of dollars every year to improve their workers’ communication abilities in the new century. No one can get along with everyone, but those who can connect with the majority will always be more successful than others on average. What they don’t do is invest in developing charismatic leaders. The first fundamental mistake.
Zig Ziglar is one of my favorite motivational speakers. “You can obtain anything in life if you just assist enough other people get what they want,” Zig always claimed. You will learn how to communicate with others so that you may assist them on their path to success. You will learn new spoken and, more importantly, nonverbal methods to connect with people. This software will assist you in becoming your very own magical genie.
Connecting with others charismatically is a natural gift that has been weakened by terrible life events. That will all change starting today. Every day as you go through and experience life, you will come into touch with a variety of people. Allow each individual with whom you speak or establish eye contact to be whatever they want to be with you. Give them the assurance that they can be honest with you. You will not pass judgment on them. Finally, enable them to be both interconnected and apart from you. If you do this, you will begin to attract other individuals.
People are drawn to those who make them feel safe, free, and joyful. This applies to both business and personal interactions!
How can we tackle the huge burden of making people feel safe, free, and happy? We are all so unique. Different items, for example, appear to help individuals feel secure. We all have unique wants, preferences, and interests. It’s difficult to predict what will make a person feel more liberated and at ease. In reality, when we are in the midst of groups of strangers, we frequently don’t know what to say, so we simply stare at the ground and avoid eye contact as we pass by. What exactly do we need to do to inspire this love, contentment, and sense of security in others? Even when we know someone, it is quite difficult to communicate to them about the things that are most important to us.
How should we discuss sex with our spouse or significant other? How do we discuss religion with our relatives? How should we discuss politics with our friends? How do we speak with those we love in an open and honest manner while maintaining the relationship? It is not simple, but it is doable. (We will address all of these concerns!)
If you’re like most people, you’ve undoubtedly wondered why we all communicate so differently. You probably want certain individuals to be more open to you and others to listen to you. Perhaps most crucially, you are probably aware that we are more than animals, more than thinking machines, and that there is something unique about us. Finally, as significant as our individuality is, there is a communal element that makes us feel connected to…everyone.
This program will also assist you in communicating with each individual you encounter in a way that recognizes their uniqueness and connectivity with you.
We communicate the way we do for a variety of reasons.
We are all, to some extent, the result of our DNA.
We are all products of our surroundings, including our classmates and family.
We are all, in part, the result of our individual experiences. (Traumas, Life Events, and so on.)
We all have protective attitudes that can enhance or hinder communication. We all want to be loved.
We’ve all experienced emotional distress.
We don’t want to be harmed again.
Did you know that every word given to a person either promotes or diminishes their physical and mental well-being? Your words and intentions have such power that you can alter the state of being and mind of nearly everyone with whom you come into touch.
We must all learn to nurture both ourselves and others. This attribute is one of the driving forces for successful people’s success. This can only be accomplished via conversation. Most individuals in the world use verbal and nonverbal communication as their primary modes of communication. There are, however, other types of communication, such as reading written publications like this handbook and the very strong kinesthetic communication…touching.
What you say and how you say it influences not only the experience of others, but also your own. There isn’t much you can say to someone that will be seen as “neutral.” Almost every communication is regarded as “good” or “negative” on a conscious or unconscious level. What this entails for you and me when we interact with others is substantial. We absorb the same “energy” that we make for others as we create it for ourselves. (Jesus stated, “What you sow, that shall you reap.”) In other words, if the words and intentions we provide to others are charged with good energy, the effect on ourselves is nearly comparable. (Another well-known proverb goes, “The love you accept is equal to the love you produce…”)
This is not to say that if you speak with everyone gently, they will adore you. It implies that if you speak with love and integrity to everyone you come into contact with, YOU will benefit from the love and integrity you share.
Many millions of individuals are absolutely unable to communicate in any way other than a hostile tone (with their current resources and comprehension). Your loving conversation with an openly antagonistic individual is unlikely to get the intended response. Indeed, so many individuals have lost touch with their inner selves that they have become a liability to society. These people frequently spend a significant portion of their lives in jail for violent crimes against others. The difference is that their bodily experience has taught them to be irresponsible in their behaviors toward themselves and others for a variety of reasons. The shell that encases that wailing soul is so stone-cold that the soul’s screaming for attention and protection is only recognized at the conscious level as anti-social conduct. It’s a terrible and tragic situation.
Finally, your authentic and inner self must communicate honestly, with aim, integrity, bravery, and confidence. We all need acceptance, and if you accept others as they are, you will attract people. In truth, you and I require both liberty and security. Your loved ones are desperate for acceptance. They are made of the same stuff as you and me. Your friends, family, and coworkers, just like you, require your love, generosity, and acceptance. We all seek and require affection. We all want and require to be cared for. We all desire to be self-sufficient. We all want to feel protected and secure.
The charismatic communicator is charismatic because he is aware of all of these emotions and states of mind. He possesses a strong “other consciousness.”
You probably don’t realize it, but I don’t spend my whole day conducting corporate sales trainings and hanging out with Playboy Playmates. I still work as a psychologist in my office ten hours each week. I frequently use hypno-analysis, a great therapeutic therapy. People go from all over the world to visit me for a few minor problems. In general, I only meet clients who are chronically unwell with chronic fatigue syndrome, fibromyalgia, and, in particular, tinnitus (ringing in the ears). Of course, I see clients for a variety of illnesses, including anxiety, depression, PTSD, and eating disorders, but I concentrate my efforts on my areas of expertise.
Individuals fly through thousands of psychotherapists and hypnotherapists because they have heard that not only do I work with people who are suffering from these heinous issues, but that I have also suffered and, for the most part, overcame them myself. I’ve never had to run an advertisement for the work I perform. The positive word about the job I perform spreads like wildfire across communities of individuals who have these shared challenges.
Listening is a vital component of communication that I have learned to be really significant. Listening to me is not a passive activity. This means that I don’t wait for others to complete speaking before speaking myself. In my work, I listen while writing down questions and follow-up inquiries on a note pad to extract more and more information about the individual, their pain, their internal experience, how others react to their sickness, and so on. On fact, in my first appointment with a customer, I may only speak for 15 minutes of the two-hour session period. The rationale is straightforward. People are unwell in part because no one is interested in listening to them. People have reported feeling considerably better after leaving my office following a short case review and without even beginning therapy “interventions.” What’s the reason? I pay close attention. I’m so fascinated and concerned about the folks I see that I want them to know they have a supporter in me. I am not only concerned, but also an advocate for their health and well-being. I am a fighter for their happiness and health in the future. They understand that I am genuinely committed to helping them improve.
When you look about at your family and friends, consider being an advocate for their happiness, health, and well-being. How precisely can you listen better without feeling compelled to interject your own personal experiences into theirs? How can you deliberately establish a “safe area” for conversation with persons you care about? We have to think about how to do this mindfully because life hasn’t always been kind to us and we’ve had certain events along the way that have harmed our capacity to communicate effectively. We usually start off relatively healthy at birth, but then things start to go wrong.
Before we wrap up for the day, I’d want to share the first ten keys to generating enduring charm. (There are about 40 in total. Today, time and space just do not allow for them all!)
Have an almost whole exterior focus of attention on others.
With your eyes and your words, express yourself about others.
Discuss subjects that are pertinent to the present debate.
Avoid using “I” pronouns. Make contact with “you.”
When others prod you, expose one of your biggest personal resources, whether it is a talent, skill, or ability. But only if prodded.
Look suitable for the situation.
Intentionally care about everyone with whom you come into touch. You can’t pull this off.
Walk confidently. Not too quickly. You’re not in a rush. Don’t be too sluggish. You are not a slacker.
Exude self-assurance. People feel comfortable, secure, and joyful when they see and experience self-confidence.
Be a shining example of personal mastery. You are self-assured, not arrogant. You are an expert in your field, specialty, or product or service. You are THE person to contact.
Make your consumer feel appreciated. They are valuable, and you make them realize it!
This is only the start. Check out the CD program below to learn how to master the charismatic experience!
Kevin Hogan, Psy.D. discusses The Three Disciplines: Personal Mastery, Charisma, and Self-Discipline.
Training, exercise, or regimen that develops or enhances a skill is referred to as discipline.
In life, there are several levels of perfection. Personal Mastery is a discipline that develops with time and with experience, as well as with the assistance of the skill of Self-Discipline. The two operate together to elevate you to a higher level of performance. Charisma and personal magnetism enable you to engage with people at a level of quality and influential elegance that elevates you to the status of “go-to” person, expert, and in-demand. The Three Disciplines are being offered as a bundle for the first time. Each place is represented by two high-quality digital audio CDs, for a total of six CDs and a comprehensive handbook to assist you on your tour.
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